If you need to see yourself in everything you look at, look in the mirror for the things you have yet to see.
Find the balance within the swirl of emotions that sway your everyday perceptions. Your paradigms are not permanent and misplaced projections subject others to unfair objections.
Before denying others their own point of view, disconnect that skew and tweak your personal views.
Not everyone shares your skew and unto themselves deserve a mirror without visions of you.
Flip it, grip it and look at the mirror in front of you.
What you see is what you project and projectors are what the ego protects.